Quitters never win. Winners never quit. What a load of crap. Sure, if you're running a race and you quit in the middle of it, you're not going to win. But some people subscribe to the notion that quitting is a bad thing, in all situations. "You can't just jump ship when things get tough or don't go the way you want." Of course you can. And thankfully, studies are now showing that you SHOULD.
"Learn to appreciate the upside of quitting. Because you can't solve tomorrow's problem if you're not willing to abandon today's dud." - Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner in Think Like a Freak
Now I'm not advocating that anyone quit on something at the first sign of dissatisfaction. That would be counterproductive. But I do believe (and the people at Freakonomics agree) that we should all be more willing to pull the metaphorical plug a little earlier on things when we know we're unhappy. There's this notion of "sunk cost" that keeps us fighting losing battles which ultimately end up causing even greater dissatisfaction and 6 months down the road, you wish you had just quit 6 months ago. When we have sunk time, energy, money, etc. into something, we hold onto it hoping things will turn around. And we SHOULD... to an extent. But there's a point at which we know that we need to just call it quits but we continue with it because we've already invested so much time in it.
I've always subscribed to the philosophy that when faced with a decision, you should do what you'll regret the least... not necessarily what you want the most. So before you go off and quit something, the first thing you wanna do is make sure you're not going to regret it later. So I'm definitely not advocating quitting something without giving it a LOT of thought and consideration. But once you've figured out in your head that your future is not in that job, relationship, situation, etc., end it immediately. You'll be glad you did.
When was the last time you quit something that didn't end up being a good decision? If it's happened a lot, then maybe you're one of those people that makes decisions like this without giving it enough thought. For me, I can't think of a single time that I quit anything where I regretted it for a single second. Are there things I miss? Sure. Would I have loved to stay in that situation if it had been salvageable? You bet your hiney.
When I was in eighth grade, I hated school. Absolutely despised it. And a lot of it had to do with the school I was in. That school was fine for some people but for me, it was pure hell. So I quit going there. I transferred to a different school where I had a great experience, met lifelong friends and met the eventual mother of my children.
When I worked for the OU Athletics Department, I eventually got to the point where I knew I had reached my potential there. I was not happy. People told me I was absolutely NUTS for wanting to quit. I had a good, reliable job working for a university, doing what I loved and getting to go on free Bowl trips every year. But I quit. And it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I now own the nation's premiere sports creative agency and am infinitely more satisfied with my career. And when the time comes when I'm not, I'll probably quit this too.
I've quit other things, too. Personal relationships... Professional relationships... I quit holding on to the idea that I can grow a nice head of hair and just decided to buzz it all off. Point is, not only do I not regret anything I've ever quit, I'm much happier because of those things.
Think Like A Freak
Still don't believe me? That's okay. But you should read the latest book by Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubnar, Think Like a Freak. They spend an entire chapter on this and do it way more justice than I have. The point they make (and the one I'm trying to make), is that quitting is okay. And for the most part, it leads to greater satisfaction in life.
Dear Old Hat Staff: Please don't quit.
I sincerely hope that this blog hasn't inspired anyone on my staff to quit. That would suck. But only because my assumption is that if I've inspired them to quit, they have to have been unhappy here for some time. And THAT is what would bother me. All I want for any of my staff is that they are as happy as they can possibly be. And if quitting their job would lead to greater happiness, I would encourage them to rip the band-aid off and move on to the next phase of their lives.
P.S. But seriously, Old Hatters... don't quit your jobs. This philosophy applies to everyone but you.
Nearly two years and $11 million later, the University of Louisville is about to enter the ACC. On July 1st, the Cardinals will become the ACC's 14th member. In preparation for the move, ACC logos were placed on the field,
billboards have been posted throughout the city,
and on July 1st, Louisville Athletics will host a welcome event at Fourth Street Live! Lucky for me, I'll be in Louisville during this time for vacation so I hope to make it down to the event!